PHOTO PROMPT © Rochelle Wisoff-Fields
He gave her the bowl for Valentine’s Day one year early in their marriage. She treasured it because he wasn’t much of a gifter. Not that he didn’t care; just that he didn’t think of it. She understood, and valued any gift he offered all the more.
It came to be known as “That pretty bowl.” It had celebrated with the family over the years, holding fruit, or vegetable salads, or concoctions of Jello and whipped cream. Sometimes she filled it with the flowers of the season.
Now she was gone. Her daughter has the bowl.
Dear Linda,
You’ve crammed years of story into a hundred words. Well done. I hope the daughter cherishes the bowl. I, for one, was pleased that my brother didn’t want the bowl. 😉 Good one. (Link successful)
Shalom,
Rochelle
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I believe (my) daughter will cherish the bowl when it becomes her own 🙂
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You can transfer a possession, but not its meaning. We all have to make our own meanings
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Thanks, Neil. Good point
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I agree with Neil. Solomon even speaks of it in Ecclesiastes. The treasures we pass down aren’t always cherished by our offspring, but some do. I’m not sure how sentimental either of my kids are.
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There’s a degree of sentiment in all four of mine, but my daughter will get the bowl 🙂
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As it should be. 🙂
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Cleverly told, Linda! The different contents of the bowl summon up the different occasions on which it was used – birthdays, Christmas, Thanksgiving, summer days with flowers from sunny gardens. A whole lifetime of small and not-so-small joys.
Really lovely.
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Thanks, Penny. It’s one of those that just wrote itself, so I’m pleased that you liked it.
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After Dad died, Mom (eventually) moved into an assisted living home, which really was for the best. We’re getting ready to sell her home, and Mom is trying to foist all of her collectibles on us. Oy.
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I know–been through all that–but I think my daughter really will want the pretty bowl 🙂
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Every object tells a story. Nicely done.
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Thanks. Lain.
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Neat story. Its association with all those good times makes it an heirloom. Like our Mom’s things that we got when she sold her home, some items are so wrapped up in memories of her hospitality and love that we cherish them beyond their worth. When I go the grands can decide what they want.
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Yes, exactly. Again, as so often happens, you and I have parallel experiences 🙂
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Sweet and sad, an heirloom that meant so much more than its intrinsic value. So lovely
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Thank you, Lynne.
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My pleasure
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It may have lost it’s original meaning, but it’s taken on others now.
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Yes. Exactly 🙂
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A wonderful piece about life and the progression of time. Really great piece.
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Thanks, Lisa 🙂
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I wonder how many generations will have the pretty bowl in the future. A lovely tale of life.
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Thanks for reading and commenting, Clare.
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Oh the sweet memories that even an apparently simple object might carry. Lovely story! 🙂
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Thanks, Kasturi. There’s always something special about a dish that’s been used for many years with love, and represents family gatherings.
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Ah the memories! I too have items that belonged to my mother, so when we put flowers in a particular vase it does bring back memories. Nice one.
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Thanks so much 🙂
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A lifetime of treasure packed into this. If only our most prized possessions could speak… what tales they could tell, and do….
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Thanks, Jelli. You’re right. If inanimate objects could tell the tales they know. . . .well, it’s probably a good thing they can’t 🙂
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memories consumed! beautiful story!
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I love that the bowl has taken on an entity of its own, so to speak. We make of it what we wish, don’t we? A bowl can be a bowl… but a bowl given for love becomes something else altogether. Hopefully, the daughter cherishes it as much as Mom did…
The Christmas before my father died, he gave each of us daughters, an item we liked from his stuff. I blubbered like never before when I opened up my box and found his tea set…
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Oh, his tea set! I have way too many of those, because I love teapots and people have gifted me with them down through the years. Each one is personal and precious. So I get why your would blubber 🙂
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Indeed!! I also dreamt of opening a tea house so I was gifted with many a teapot… which I now have to get rid of as I downsize my house…and never did open my teahouse…
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Lovely! It’s amazing- the stories attached to simple items😊
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Yes. My mom had a little glass bowl with a glass spoon that she used to put in the center of a jello that had been molded in a ring. There would be a delicious creamy sauce for the jello. I loved the bowl and spoon, and I still have it. It brings back so many happy memories.
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It’s our memories that keep us going 🙂
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I think her daughter will cherish another memory… in the best of cases a bowl could be built on layers of memories…
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A bowl with history and a daughter to carry on adding to it 🙂
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i like the metaphor of the bowl holding family memories as the years pass by. well done.
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Thanks 🙂
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It had celebrated with the family over the years. How lovely that you included the bowl as if it was part of the family, not just a thing. Nicely done.
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Thanks so much 🙂
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A lovely touching story. The fact that he wasn’t a “gifter” made it more real and the bowl very special. I really enjoyed the descriptions of what went in it too. I am always wanting to know what people have to eat!
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I wonder–do people still make fancy Jell-o salads? I think it may be a bit old-fashioned, but we still have a couple of favorites that are requested especially at Thanksgiving and Christmas.
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I still have my wedding present bowl too – I wonder if any of my children will value it?
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I hope so. Something like that, passed down the generations, helps keep us connected.
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You’ve told a life through a bowl. This is what happens to these items – they get handed down to the daughter.
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There is nothing like crystal to keep love in the family for generations. Great sentiments.
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Thanks, James.
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That is a lovely and touching read.
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Thanks so much 🙂
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My dad wasn’t much of a gifter either. But he did cut my mother a bouqet of daffodils every spring when the first blossoms arrived. He always said it was better to give people flowers while they were still alive than to wait and place them on their graves.
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A lovely story of memories and remembrance, very nice! =)
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Sad that many of us that are of a certain age, know our children and grandchildren don’t want our special (to us) items. I enjoyed the story.
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Thanks, Donna. I think one of the reasons they don’t want/need our stuff is that these days, couples seem to start out with far more than we, and especially our parents, had when they first married. My sre. umom longed for years for a complete set of china, finally got one for her 25th wedding anniversary. It was a different era, for sure.
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Lovely story with heartfelt memories coming through.
Isadora 😎
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Such a beautiful and poignant story as the bowl is valued by the next generation, and the next, and all that come after I imagine.
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Yes, I think my daughter’s daughter will value it as well 🙂
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The bowl has as many memories as facets, and you told about them beautifully in a 100 words!
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Thank you 🙂
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A story of a generation in 100 words! Amazing take on the prompt.
https://trailbrooklane.blogspot.com/2018/05/the-plant-in-bowl.html
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Thank you!
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